Consider the following tips as you attempt to launch your new lifestyle:
1. Do some things that appear unrealistic. As you begin your new life as a single person/mom there will be plenty of opportunities for doing things that are completely realistic. Don’t let others sway your thoughts with negative comments.
2. Think of yourself as a legend. Since you are starting over, this is the perfect opportunity to take your career in a different direction. Nothing says you have to seek the same kind of job you performed before you got divorced. This is a good time to think of all the types of jobs you used to think of doing.
3. Picture yourself as a person who can do it all. If you think as a person who is fearful and cautious, you may find yourself willing to accept the first job offer you have even if it isn’t what you really want. Instead, see yourself as confident and proactive.
4. Look at the big picture and don’t limit your scope when it comes to job opportunities. You may not be offered the position for which you originally applied, but HR may offer you another one.
5. Go after what you want. Imagine yourself as a powerful woman and take aim to achieve what your heart desires.
6. Have a multi-faceted plan for your job search. Don’t limit yourself to just checking listings and sending out resumes. Be creative in your search and don’t leave any stones unturned.
7. Don’t worry needlessly about your resume. While you certainly need a resume, it is probably not the factor that will get you the interview or the job. If you are having a problem and find you can’t move forward because of your resume, set up a profile at Linkedin.com. Even minimal information will help you build a network of contacts.
8. Do not underestimate your technical skills. Even if you don’t feel completely comfortable with computers, don’t overlook a good job. Instead look for cheap or free classes that teach the basic skills.
9. Network as any mother would by using LinkedIn, friends, family, and professional associations. Do whatever you need to do in order to build your courage and contacts.
10. Visualize what you want in your life and where you would like to see yourself in 5-10 years. Hold on to your vision for the future.