If you’ve been trying to reconnect with your kids, it might seem like you constantly have to deal with the emotional turmoil and rejection – especially if your children believe you’re the cause of the split. Fortunately, children can and do learn to forgive and move forward, especially if you show them you’re ready to move on to the next chapter. To help you get started, here are seven activities you can do with your children to reconnect:
Go Camping: It doesn’t matter where you go, but staying together is important. Take a weekend and visit somewhere new you’ve never been. Whether you’re an avid tent camper or you’ve never tried it before – there’s nothing better than spending the time outdoors.
Play a game of tag: Young or old, running through the park and playing with your children is a great way to reconnect—even if your children are teenagers. Show your children a playful side and watch them unfold before your eyes.
Play basketball: There’s nothing better than hitting the concrete and playing a game of basketball with your kids – especially if they’re particularly competitive. Look for games that everyone can play, whether that’s a “distance competition” or whether it is a quick game on half-court.
Go on a Scavenger Hunt: Sit down with your children and determine at least ten things you’d like to find together on a nature walk. They can be as simple as a flower or as complicated as a specific type of bird. Finish off the walk with a cool treat or trip to the park.
Learn a new hobby: Ask your children about a new sport or activity they’d like to learn and make the commitment to doing it as a team. Whether you’re looking to finally master snowboarding or whether waterskiing is the task – you’re bound to have fun, learn something new and build skills together with your child.
Get involved in the community: Look into group activities that have both children and adults; these can be gardening groups or outing activities you can all do together. Many times these team building activities can help your child connect with friends and can also build lasting memories for both of you.
Do Absolutely Nothing: Take an afternoon to do literally nothing but watch the clouds and see the world through a child again.